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Coronavirus COVID-19 Pandemic 2020

Coronavirus COVID-19 Pandemic 2020

So much has happened since Wuhan, China first reported its coronavirus outbreak to the World Health Organization (WHO) on 31st December 2019.  The outbreak was declared a Public Health Emergency a month later as it spread around China and new cases were discovered in other parts of the world. WHO named the coronavirus COVID-19 on the 11th Feb 2020.

By 11th March, COVID-19 became a worldwide phenomenon after spreading through 114 countries and killing more than 4000 people. WHO then classified it as a pandemic. The large outbreaks at this point were in Italy, South Korea and U.S.A. 

Updated COVID-19 cases around the world: https://www.worldometers.info/coronavirus/

I believe this is nature’s way of bringing the world back to a balance again. Throughout history, we have had devastating contagious diseases and sickness such as the plague, cholera and influenza that reduced the world of its population. Only the fit, healthy and strong survive. With research, improved knowledge. vaccination and medication, human have been able to better survive catastrophe such as these. 

So now everyone around the world is affected by COVID-19 one way or another. Panic pandemic has joined the world where everyone is stockpiling and fighting each other for toilet rolls, pasta, milk, bottle water and more. There is no escape as everyone allows fear for basic mundane survival to take over.

Unfortunately, right now, the only way to prevent this illness is to avoid being exposed to the virus. I cannot foresee this virus going away in the short term. Amidst all this, I can only say there is one caution. We need to be mindful and be vigilant to bring this crisis to a plateau and allow our scientists and medical experts to find the source, vaccine and perhaps a possible cure.

Let’s not let fear and ignorance blind us during this time. Instead, let’s focus on how we as individual can come together to overcome this crisis.

How to prevent the spread of COVID-19:

  1. Stop spreading fake news.  We all mean well when we get new information on the news of COVID-19 but we should only share information that has been validated by CDC or WHO.
  2. Be mindful of how you sneeze and cough. Cover your mouth and nose with tissue, handkerchief or use the inside of your elbow. Throw the tissue directly into a bin and wash your handkerchief with soap and hot water. Do not sneeze or cough into another person’s face or open air.
  3. Practice social distancing. Reduce the need to be in a crowd or near to anyone.
  4. Avoid close contact.  A distance of at least 6 feet or 1.5m is recommended.
  5. Self isolation for 14 days or more when you have been exposed to crowds and/or travel.
  6. Wear a face mask if you are sick or looking after a sick person.
  7. Avoid touching surfaces when outside. Use hand sanitizer to clean your hands if you do touch public surfaces.
  8. Clean and disinfect frequently touched surfaces, such as the bathroom sink, kitchen sink and table tops, etc.
  9. Boost your immune system. Remember to eat healthy and keep yourself hydrated.
  10. Keep fit. Keep the mind and body healthy by positive thoughts, meditation and, simple breathing and movement exercises.
  11. Avoid touching your face, eyes, nose and mouth with your hands. Our hands are the most likely channel of passing on germs and viruses.
  12. Wash your hands properly and frequently. Lather soap for at least for 20 second covering the in-between your fingers, under the nails, palms and back of your hands right up to the wrist. Reminder to save water while washing your hands. Only turn the tap on to wet your hands and to rinse the soap later off. 

Please do stay safe and do the right things to protect yourself and your loved ones. When each and every one of us plays our part together in unity simultaneously against COVID-19, we will slowly but surely win this battle.

Life Is Meant To Be Happy

Life Is Meant To Be Happy

Life is not meant to be the best. Life is meant to be happy.

We often talk about wanting a happy successful life. How do we define success or for that matter happiness? When we are successful, we are happy and when we are happy, we are successful in all we do.

So is success and happiness linked to material wealth, health wealth or spiritual wealth?

To me a successful life filled with joy means we have a roof over our head to keep us safe and warm, enough food on our table, great health and especially be full of spiritual wealth. When we stop chasing material things and appreciate what we already have, when we are in good health and when we are at peace within our self, life is balanced. Does that mean we do not go for higher achievements? No, it just means we need to learn enough and to appreciate what we already have while still striving towards our ambition and goals.

So what does this phrase “Life Is Meant To Be Happy” mean? Well, let me tell you this amazing story and hopefully, it will enlighten you to see the truth about happiness in this case.

The Story of the 99 Club.

Once upon a time, there lived a King who, despite his luxurious lifestyle, was not happy nor contented. One day when he was out travelling, he noticed a peasant who was singing happily while he worked.

The King wondered how this lowly peasant who has nothing can be so contented and asked the man “Why are you singing so happily?”

The peasant replied, “ Your Majesty, I am but a common man. However, my family and myself don’t have much wants, just warm food to fill our bellies and a roof over our heads.”

The King doubted the man’s words. When he returned to his palace, he sought advice from his most trusted minister. After hearing the King’s headache, the minister said “Your Majesty, I believe this peasant that you saw is not a member of the 99 Club yet.”

“The 99 Club?” asked the King. The minister proceeded to explain. “Your Majesty, to understand the 99 Club, you need to deliver 99 gold coins in a bag and place in on the man’s front door.”

So the King did exactly that the next day. When the peasant returned home that evening, he saw a bag on his doorstep. He took it into his house and opened it. When he realised the bag was filled with gold coins, he gave out a shout of glee. He began to count the coins one by one and after several counts, he confirmed there were 99 gold coins. He began to wonder why there were only 99 coins? “What happened to that last gold coin? No one would leave just 99 coins!”

He searched everywhere but he could not find the 100th coin. He decided that he would start working harder to earn the one gold coin that would complete his collection of 100 gold coins.

From that day, the peasant worked extra hard and had no time for his family. He was completely focussed on earning the one gold coin. He worked from morning to night without stopping. He was exhausted and grumpy by the end of the day. He stopped enjoying his work and he stopped singing.

The King observed the dramatic change in the peasant and was puzzled. He asked his minister to explain. His minister replied “Your Majesty, the man is now a member of the 99 Club. The Club consist of people who have enough to be happy but they are forever striving for that one extra thing that they think will make them happy, thus they are never satisfied nor happy.”

The moral of this story is that we can be happy and contented regardless if we have a lot or very little in our lives. The moment we forget to appreciate what we already have and let our desire and greed overpower us, we join the world of discontentment and unhappiness; adding unnecessary stress into our lives. Choose to be grateful and happy while living your dreams. After all, life is meant to be happy, truly.

Have you count your blessings today?

Namaste.

Make Your Dreams into Reality

Make Your Dreams into Reality

Dreams can only become a reality with hard work and determination.
When you do nothing, nothing happens.

“Making Dreams Into Reality Is Easy With The Right Mindset And Actions.”

Do you dream? And if you do, what do you dream of? Do you dream of making enough money to retire early, spending more time with family, travelling the world? Do you dream BIG? Do you believe you have the potential to be the greatest that you dare dream, to make your dream a reality?

How do we make our dreams into reality?

Well, of course, first of all, you need to allow yourself to dream.
  • Choose your dream and imagine the life you want to have.
Visualize your dream.
  • Create a big screen where you see yourself already living your dream.
  • Feel the emotion as you watch your imagined screen.
Act on the dream.
  • Plan the daily steps you need towards achieving your dream.
  • Everyday, ensure you complete your tasks that will assist you in stepping towards your dream.
  • Assign deadlines to your tasks and when you reach the milestone, celebrate the joy of completing the goal towards your dream.

Remember, no mountain is too high and no ocean is too wide. Realize that it takes time, effort and patience to go the mile for your dreams. If you put your heart and mind to it, you can make it happen. Turn your dreams into reality by planning and taking the right actions that will lead you to your dreams coming true.

So be brave enough to dream and start embarking on turning your dreams into reality. Be who you are meant to be.  You can make it happen at whatever age!

Respond versus React

Respond versus React

 Yes, there is this saying that life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. However I shall say one better, life is much better when we can control our own actions and master how we respond to situations presented to us.

Most of us would think of respond and react as meaning the same, but there is a subtle difference between the two.

A reaction is instantaneous without thinking. It is fed by the unconscious mind of uncontrolled emotions, limiting beliefs, prejudices, past experiences and all memories outside of our conscious awareness. Reaction is almost always survival orientated.

On the other hand, a respond is taking a moment to access the situtation or matter based on reasons, core values, compassion and mindfulness that enables us to take the best course of action.

When we are able to align the unconscious mind with the conscious mind (the part that consists of everything inside our awarenss), we will be more equipped to make better judgements and respond wisely instead of reacting mindlessly.

So how can we do this? How do we learn to respond? With four simple steps:

  1. PAUSE.
  2. BREATHE.
  3. THINK.
  4. ACT.

 

6 Great Habits to be A Happy Couple

6 Great Habits to be A Happy Couple

A Happy Couple On Valentine’s Day.

The happy couple and hey, it’s Valentine’s Day again. A special day that is mainly celebrated amongst happy couples in love, but it can also be a celebration of love amongst family and good friends. Although Valentine’s day has been commercially hyped out as a day for romantic love celebration, I believe we should rejoice in the love we share with the other special someone in our life every day, and not just on Valentine’s Day.

So how do you maintain being the happy couple? Human relationships are complicated. Falling in love is easy and sometimes, falling out of love can be even easier. So when we are in a relationship, how do we keep being the happy couple? The answer is to nurture your relationship by practicing some great habits in your day-to-day life. So on this Valentine’s Day, here are some great easy habits to cultivate every day for a better relationship with your other half.

A Happy Couple always:

1. Communicate and Listen

  • Take time everyday to speak to each other, to share your day with each other.
  • Say “I Love You” daily – it is great to hear this affirmation even though we already know.
  • Spend time to keep in touch even if you are separated by distance.
  • Learn to listen without fixing. Sometimes we just need someone to listen to us to release our frustration, stress, etc.

2. Prioritize each other. 

  • Put your relationship in top list! Be faithful, honest, and committed to your relationship.
  • Think of your partner first and try to accommodate each other – when we do that, we tend to be more receptive of each others’ wants and needs.
  • Always respect each other. Don’t use your partner’s secret to hurt him/her no matter what the circumstances.

3. Keep appreciating each other.

  • Don’t take each other for granted – sometimes, when we get familiar or close to someone, we stop being polite and appreciative.
  • Mind your manners and remember to complement each other when the opportunity arises.
  • Date night regularly.
  • Continue the romance throughout your relationship. Flirt constantly. Open her door, pull her chair, kiss him, hold hands together, cuddle, ruffle his hair, etc.
  • Do new exciting things together.

4. Don’t hide resentments/Argue constructively.

  • Talk out your resentment and find a solution instead of bottling it up and letting it damage your relationship.
  • When arguing, argue positively. All couples argue, there is no perfect prince charming princess fairytale where we live happily ever after in a perfect world. However, learn to argue and work out disagreement constructively.
  • Avoid negative criticism (e.g. you are a pig and never help around the house), instead focus on using constructive word (e.g. I need help with keeping the house. Would love it if we could spend some time together spring cleaning the house this weekend!).

5. Have regular sex.

  • Sex is one of the closest and most beautiful way to bond, especially when you love each other plus it comes with loads of added health benefits, which will be another topic for another day!

6.  Go to bed at the same time.

  • Bed time is one of the best quiet time to share your day together, to cuddle, and speak to each other.

Have fun being the Happy Couple . Remember to stay positive in love! When you work on a positive mind set and attitude towards life in general, it will not only help you succeed towards a happy relationship, but in everything that you choose to undertake. Have a joyous celebration day of love!

Who Am I?

Who Am I?

Who Am I?

Have you ever ponder this question of “who am I?”.  No, this is not a trick question. I used to ponder on this question daily ……. just soul searching on finding the ME.

We often grow up with ideas of who we want to be……..influenced by our parents, our teachers, peers and surrounding environments. We mould ourselves to that image equating it to our Ideal Self in search of our identity, constantly re-considering ourselves and revolving around who we strive to be.

On occasions, when we face major changes in our lives that affect us severely, we may be confronted with these thoughts – Who am I? What am I doing here?

Ever travelled down this road? When it happens, it can sometimes bring down our self -esteem, or confidence and may affect how much we value ourselves. I have undergone numerous changes in various stages of my younger life, and each time rediscovered a new improved me, becoming much stronger after each challenge that I successfully faced.

So how can we overcome this matter to embrace the Real You?

To be the real authentic you, you need to engage life as you would like to live it and build the wisdom and resolution to be true to your self. You have to be the person who can see and understand life is what is, and to accept everything without any emotional attachments, letting go of the past and moving forward, living in the moment.

  1. Be deeply aware of your own thoughts, emotions, voice and actions.
  2. Recognize and stay true to your core values and principles in life.
  3. Learn about yourself – get to know your hopes, your fears, your dreams. What makes you happy? What scares you? What can you accept in your life?
  4. Spare some time daily to analyze your day. How did you react to it and was the outcome acceptable by you? Was it who you want to be in handling the daily affairs of your life? If not, what can you do to change it for the better? I personally find the best time is before bedtime where I calm my mind and go through my day to see what made me happy and what was not so conducive to being my ideal self and how I can change matters to become my happy ideal self.
  5. Figure out what you can do to change or improve yourself and start taking positive actions to do so.
  6. Write your positive affirmations down and read them daily to remind yourself, if you need to.
  7. Focus on yourself and the changes to becoming YOU. Don’t focus on things you do not want. Focus your thoughts on things and changes you want positively.
  8. Find your inner strength and will power to master your mind to do things that will change you to become the “YOU” you want to be and the life you wish to have.
  9. Last but not least, cultivate peace and tranquility to control your emotions and build good habits, so that you may let go of anger, hate and greed. This bit is the hardest to do but with tiny reinforced steps every day, it is achievable.

Be your self, not someone else.
Live your life, not someone else’s.

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